a man who controls prostitutes and takes a large part of the money that they earn for himself

Synonym: pimp

a man who does not behave, dress, or speak in a traditionally male way, especially one who behaves in a very careful way

Don't be such a ponce! Pick the spider up - it won't hurt you! 别胆小得像个女人似的！把蜘蛛抓起来，它伤不着你的！