not willing or not yet able to say what your gender identity is

You are not alone; there are many gender questioning people like you. 不是只有你，很多人和你一样对自身的性别存有疑虑。

A gender-questioning teen may feel their body was formed in a way that doesn't fit who they are. 对自身性别存疑的青少年可能会觉得他们的身体和他们对自己的认识不相符。

the condition of someone who is not willing or not yet able to say what their gender identity is

If you think you're trans or non-binary, here's how to make your gender questioning less painful. 如果你觉得自己是跨性别或非二元性别人士，这里有一些方法来减轻你在对自身性别的探索中遇到的痛苦。