trying to persuade someone to do something by saying nice things about them

I knew by your wheedling tone that you wanted something from me. 看你甜言蜜语的样子，我就知道你想从我这里得到什么。

His wheedling phone call irritated her. 他的讨好电话使她恼火。

the act of trying to persuade someone to do something by saying nice things about them

The rule will spare you endless wheedling and whining from your child. 这条规则会让你免受孩子无休止的哀求和抱怨。

By patient wheedling and soft talk I managed to persuade her. 通过耐心的劝说和软磨硬泡，我成功地说服了她。